I built this because the women closest to me needed it and could not find it.
I watched friends and family go through the same sequence. Diagnosis after years of not knowing. Medication that helped at work. Evenings still written off. That specific exhaustion that rest does not touch.
I looked for something to point them toward. Something built for exactly that gap. I could not find it.
So I built it.
I was late-diagnosed with ADHD in my thirties. I masked in every professional environment I worked in. I held it together in public and crashed in private.
I tried medication. It helped me focus but made me feel flat. I tried planners, routines, apps, and therapy. I understood more but felt no better.
Then one day I sat on the floor and could not move. Could not do simple things. I felt ashamed that I could not just push through like I always had.